Making Conversations about young entrepreneurs Count

Episode 59 - Louis Barnett

Enjoy a conversation with Louis Barnett, Chocolatier

 

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Louis Barnett, Making Conversations about young entrepreneurs Count (December 2021)

Choclopreneur

Whilst working for a creative design company a young man of 15 years Louis Barnett came on Wendy’s radar as the Young Entrepreneur of the Year.

He’d made his mark in chocolate.

As someone of a similar age to Wendy’s eldest daughter when the business spirit first took hold, chocolate was always going to factor somewhere in grabbing attention.

Whilst chocolate is tasty it’s not necessarily the first subject that springs to mind when you’re talking about young entrepreneurs.

However, chocolate is a great way to get young people interested in business.

Louis Barnett founder of Chokolit – and developer of the “Chocolate Box Methodology” in business has a very different approach thanks to his work with mentors.

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Using his experience to help other SMEs

When you think of young entrepreneurs, what do you imagine?

An 18 year old? 20?

This episode of the podcast features one of Britain’s most remarkable young entrepreneurs. Louis Barnett started out at just 14 years old.

Louis now works with SME’s across the UK helping them with their strategy and growth.

Having already been recognised with a Lord Carter award for his contributions to food and drink industry, his credibility has skyrocketed.

He’s overseen trade with 17 countries around the world along with the birthplace of chocolate – Mexico.

In this episode of the “Making Conversations Count” podcast, Louis says he was an entrepreneur by default not by chosen career path!

Louis Barnett: “I think I was very much an entrepreneur by default.

I think that of a lot of entrepreneurs, especially now.

It’s like this thing which wasn’t around when I was around, it was this whole career path where when I started, I certainly didn’t intend to be an entrepreneur.

I didn’t intend to really make any money out of it.

It was just I loved, and I was pretty good at eating chocolate, so that helped, fell into making stuff for family and friends and then it just snowballed.

And it ended up being this big part of my life.

But it certainly wasn’t a conscious decision of, “Right, let’s start this business and make some money and create a career”.

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Chocolate and business

The chocolate industry is a great place to learn about business, and Louis Barnett has been doing just that since the age of 14. Now he’s helping other young entrepreneurs achieve their dreams by using his experience in chocolate as a benchmark for teaching his mentees about his ‘chocolate box methodology’!

Of course his principles could be applied to any product – but chocolate – thanks to its universal appeal means it can reach out and inspire across nations and borders quickly.

The importance of sustainability

Sustainability has been at the backbone of everything that Louis Barnett does within his business operations.

He sees a huge amount of hypocrisy around the issue being carried out by other brands, and it’s something he’s keen not to contribute to.

As this part from the latest in our series of conversations reveals…

Wendy Harris: I think going back to values and things like that, I know where you are coming from. It will be organic, chemical-free. It’s not even about the brand that, is it? That’s just about being a good human.

Louis Barnett: Yes, I guess so.  In a way, there are two categories of people that are involved in sustainability: those that really care or those that want to be seen to care. Actually, in a sense, I don’t really mind which one it is, because I think as long as people are doing something.

Wendy Harris: Better than nothing.

Louis Barnett: Yeah, exactly. I just think that for me, I grew up in a little village, not from an incredibly privileged background. When I was really young, food was difficult to put on the table and there were a lot of things that I think informed my decisions that really for me and in my personal life as well, I don’t go against my values. I am absolutely black and white when it comes to values, so for me I think that just fulfils such a big thing for me.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m always probably going to need to be close to a city, but to be able to come home after being in meetings and be in this little haven of British jungle, if you like, and to disappear into the garden at the end of the day, that is kind of exactly what I want.”

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Is Britain culturally integrated enough?

During this episode, while Making Conversations about young entrepreneurs Count, Louis offered his views on how Britain should do more to become culturally integrated and how the rest of the world puts us to shame on the world business stage.

Louis Barnett: I really wished that somehow Britain was more culturally integrated, even with Europe, that we had more focus on foreign languages, and I think you pick up little bits of different languages and I had all kinds of different phrasebooks in different countries. I am probably not as practised anymore, but at one point I could get around and do most things in Spanish and hold a very basic conversation.

Wendy Harris: Is that close to Mexican; is it the Hispanic route?

Louis Barnett: Yeah, it is pretty much identical without the “th” sounds. Obviously, Castilian Spanish you get a lot of “Theravetha” sounds whereas with Mexican, they just cut it out, it’s, “Cerveza”. Or, in Spain, a ladies’ name, “Rotheo“, would be, “Roseo” in Mexico, so actually in a way it is easier to speak.

There’s a lot of colloquial stuff, and you get some words that are almost illegible initially that are Nahuatl, or indigenous words that just look completely — there’s lots of Xs and Os and Ys and Zs, but it is very similar. But as I said, it never ceases to amaze me how good English is internationally. Wherever you seem to go in the world, you can at least have some basic conversations with most people. I especially think that even if you learn base phrases and base language, people will try with you. Whereas, if you take the approach, “Well, I’m English and everyone should speak it”.

Wendy Harris: The arrogance of the English.

Louis Barnett: Yes, generally people lose all of their English words immediately and look at you quizzically, so I think it is really important to just pick up as much as you can. It is obviously not always as easy to do with certain countries; but yeah, just show a bit of effort and usually people will try as much as they can to try and converse with you.”

We’re not doing enough to sell “Brand Britain”

Louis believes UK based business owners are literally living on one of the best brands on the planet.

And we’re taking it for granted.

He sees Brand Britain as a tremendous opportunity.

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Full Episode Transcript

Title:

Making Conversations about Young Entrepreneurs Count

Episode:

59

Guest:

Louis Barnett, Chocolatier

 

Timestamps

00:00:00: Introduction
00:01:39: Monsieur Barnett
00:02:20: Louis’s journey
00:05:18: Chocolate air miles
00:07:39: Shiny object syndrome
00:10:02: Foreign languages
00:13:35: What came after chocolate
00:17:07: Louis’s long-term goal
00:18:29: Ethics and values
00:22:36: Louis’s pivotal conversations
00:29:08: You never know where a conversation might lead
00:31:51: Final thoughts

 

Interview Transcription

Wendy Harris: Hello again, it’s me, Wendy Harris, your host on Making Conversations Count.  I want to just quickly remind you of the values of the show: looking to bring you business leaders with their industry insights, sharing their honest real-life stories and that conversation that counted.  It couldn’t be closer to those values with today’s guest, because it’s somebody that I met over a decade ago and actually, he is the same age as my eldest daughter, and I got talking to his mum quite a lot because he was a busy young man back then.  He had won the Young Entrepreneurs of the Year Award for chocolate; we all love chocolate, right?  He’s gone on to do some really fantastic things.  Let’s get on, because we’re making conversations about young entrepreneurs count.

What’s new Wendy Woo?  Well, I’m going to be spending the next few weeks, I think, sharing with you your reviews from the Brad Sugars episode.  It’s been fantastic to have your feedback and of course the rituals that Brad shared with us.  The stretch, WIFLE and whoosh are a great way to start a meeting.  If you don’t know what I’m talking about, scroll back to Episode 55.

Now, I want to get this young man, Louis, chatting about young entrepreneurship.  Monsieur Barnett!

Louis Barnett: How are you?

Wendy Harris: I am absolutely splendid.  Do you know I was just reminiscing, that must have been 15, 16 years ago when you first came on my radar?

Louis Barnett: It’s got to be a long time, because I remember I was talking to my mum the other day and she remembers you popping up.  We were trying to figure when it was, but it was probably 15 years ago or so, as you say.

Wendy Harris: Life has been kind to you since, yes?  Because I almost feel like your mum.  I’ve been following your career all this time.

Louis Barnett: Yeah, very kind.  I think it’s been a very interesting journey, particularly over the last five or six years as well, where making that transition from building my own business pretty much full time and since 2008, I’ve done consultancy in different projects.  But building your own thing versus building others with them, it’s quite a different transition.  I’d say I’ve probably learned almost as much in the last sort of five, six years that I did in some of the years previous to that.  So, yes, it’s been a very interesting journey for sure.

Wendy Harris: You weren’t really far out of school were you, before you were launched into this madness of being successful?  You were selected for, was it the Duke of Edinburgh or Prince’s Trust or something like that?  Come on, I’m an old lady now, help me out.

Louis Barnett: Yeah, sure, so there were a few different ones but the big one was the Lord Carter Award, which was for the achievement in the food and drink industry which typically had been given to CEOs of quite big companies.  It was presented at the time by CEO Justin King of Sainsbury’s and others, so it’s quite cool to know that I was carrying weight in the industry.  I think at the time, when I was very much the youngest person in a lot of rooms, it was good to know that I was still being able to stand toe-to-toe with some real industry greats, which was brilliant.

Wendy Harris: Young Entrepreneur of the Year, I seem to remember those headlines.  How jealous must some of our listeners be that you made your mark with chocolate?  It must have been the coolest job ever leaving school.

Louis Barnett: It was, yes.  I mean it’s interesting because I think I was very much an entrepreneur by default, in the sense that I think a lot of entrepreneurs, especially now, it’s like this thing which wasn’t around when I was around, it was this whole career path where when I started, I certainly didn’t intend to be an entrepreneur, I didn’t intend to really make any money out of it.  It was just I loved, and I was pretty good at eating chocolate, so that helped, fell into making stuff for family and friends and then it just snowballed, and it ended up being this big part of my life.  But it certainly wasn’t a conscious decision of, “Right, let’s start this business and make some money and create a career”. 

I left school obviously to be home educated.  That was, I think, a consideration somewhere in the back of my mind that it was like, “At some point, I’m going to have to employ myself or find something”, so I think that helped, but most of it was just I loved doing it, I carried on doing it and it just went from strength to strength and organically grew.

Wendy Harris: How many air miles did you do in those first early months of chocolate?  I remember back in the day when I was hammering the phone for clients all the while, I was working for a design agency that just really wanted to take your brand put you on the map, and that was it.  I was always just talking to your mum, because you were on some aeroplane somewhere in South America or something.  I was just, “How cool is that?”

Louis Barnett: Yes, there were a lot of air miles and I think it was interesting, because a lot of Brits go through the disillusion of the island mentality, as I like to sort of say, this idea that when you’re brought up in Britain, we’re quite isolated in a sense culturally and from a business perspective.  Whereas, I’ve got friends that live in Switzerland, and they speak seven languages, and they are going in and out of borders.

Wendy Harris: A great place for chocolate.

Louis Barnett: Yeah, absolutely.  As an islander, you get very locked in and then suddenly, it’s like somebody lifts the lid off it and goes, “There’s a really big world out there”, and actually the UK is this teeny tiny little grain of sand in the ocean.  It’s a perspective in a way that I wish a lot of British businesses really understood, that we’ve got one of the best brands in the world.  Brand Britain is so strong, and actually there is so much potential for so many more British businesses to get out there into the world, use that as a kind of leverage to actually get their products and services out there.

I was very lucky to be invited to speak and to do various projects, but obviously also exporting the chocolate.  So, 8 years after we started, we’re in 17 countries around the world.  So, yeah, it was a pretty steep growth curve, but at the same time probably a little bit of overtrading and we did have a bit of a shotgun approach where we were being pulled in every different direction and it was great.  At the same time, it meant that some of our markets probably weren’t as established as they could be.

Mexico ended up being our best, because I just fell in love with it.  I’m a massive foodie and obviously that’s where chocolate came from, and I ended up spending loads of time out there and that then became our best market, but I wished I could have cloned myself sometimes with all the travelling and stuff.

Wendy Harris: The challenge there though, Louis, is that this next best thing, being pulled in all these different ways, it’s like shiny object syndrome, isn’t it?  It’s all new, it’s all the challenge that you’ve always gone, “Come on, bring it on.  Let’s just see where this takes me”, so why not just enjoy the ride and there will be places that you’re not going to do as well as, but it doesn’t mean to say that you haven’t just smashed it really?

Louis Barnett: I completely agree, and I think that learning curve is sometimes really important and I think that it’s almost this expansion and reduction that I ended up doing, where it’s like shiny object syndrome, like you said.  You’re everything to everyone and everywhere and there’s this big wide world out there.  I just think — I suppose I sort of learnt then my perspective was that the business still has to fulfil me and still has to actually give me what I need from it, rather than just me allowing it to pull me in every different direction.

For the first five years, I didn’t have a single holiday.  We had a few days off at Christmas, but a proper dedicated holiday, so little things like that I think teach you a lesson that actually, eventually, a business is supposed to support your lifestyle instead of takeover every aspect of your life.

Wendy Harris: But of course, you were doing all this travelling, so weren’t you having a marvellous time?

Louis Barnett: Yes.

Wendy Harris: People don’t understand the difference between travelling for work and travelling for pleasure.

Louis Barnett: Yeah, sure.  It was nice that I think as we really started to establish some of those markets, I would spend longer, because actually I realised that dipping in and out of countries was good fun, but somebody says, “What’s San Fran like?”  You go, “The conference centre’s really nice, the hotel was great and the airport’s quite nice and clean”, and you have a lot of stories like that, that when you drop in and out, as you say, it’s a very different experience.

I know the insides of lots of different exhibition centres around the world, but not so much the countries they belong to.  Whereas, as time I went on I said, “Actually, I need to choose a few key markets, spend more time out there” and obviously, Mexico became one of those, but there are a few others as well that you really got to know, and it became fun again rather than just lots and lots of jetlag back-to-back.

Wendy Harris: It’s realigning that purpose that you started with, isn’t it?  We’re all about conversations on this show.  What was it like travelling to different countries?  What was it like with the language barriers?  Did that hold you back, or are you a bit fluent in some languages?

Louis Barnett: I think we are incredibly lucky that English is the international language, especially when you are doing business at a certain level, everybody seems to speak English and it really puts us to shame.

Wendy Harris: They speak in pound notes, do they?

Louis Barnett: I really wished that somehow Britain was more culturally integrated, even with Europe, that we had more focus on foreign languages, and I think you pick up little bits of different languages and I had all kinds of different phrasebooks in different countries.  I am probably not as practised anymore, but at one point I could get around and do most things in Spanish and hold a very basic conversation.

Wendy Harris: Is that close to Mexican; is it the Hispanic route?

Louis Barnett: Yeah, it is pretty much identical without the “th” sounds.  Obviously, Castilian Spanish you get a lot of “Theravetha” sounds whereas with Mexican, they just cut it out, it’s, “Cerveza”.  Or, in Spain, a ladies’ name, “Rotheo“, would be, “Roseo” in Mexico, so actually in a way it is easier to speak.

There’s a lot of colloquial stuff, and you get some words that are almost illegible initially that are Nahuatl, or indigenous words that just look completely — there’s lots of Xs and Os and Ys and Zs, but it is very similar.  But as I said, it never ceases to amaze me how good English is internationally.  Wherever you seem to go in the world, you can at least have some basic conversations with most people.  I especially think that even if you learn base phrases and base language, people will try with you.  Whereas, if you take the approach, “Well, I’m English and everyone should speak it”.

Wendy Harris: The arrogance of the English.

Louis Barnett: Yes, generally people lose all of their English words immediately and look at you quizzically, so I think it is really important to just pick up as much as you can.  It is obviously not always as easy to do with certain countries; but yeah, just show a bit of effort and usually people will try as much as they can to try and converse with you.

Wendy Harris: Most people will learn certain key phrases, won’t they, like, “Good morning”, “Good afternoon”, “Two beers, please”, that sort of thing!  I remember I was in Kenya, and we were taught by our driver to speak some Swahili, which was just awesome.  So, it was, “Jambo”, going round with all these words.  I couldn’t tell you now what they are, but at the time we felt like we were part of it and people embrace you for trying and that’s the key thing, isn’t it?

Louis Barnett: Yeah, sure.

Wendy Harris: That and the swear words, everybody always knows what the swear words are; why is that?

Louis Barnett: I remember almost every country somebody sitting down with me and going, “Shall I teach you all the swear words?”  “Okay, but I’d like to kind of know how to order a coffee first, but yeah, okay, that’s cool”.

Wendy Harris: I can spot if somebody’s saying something horrible about you now.

Louis Barnett: Yes, absolutely.  Or if somebody almost runs me over, I have at least got a local response!

Wendy Harris: I know that chocolate is what started things off for you, but you have diversified since, haven’t you, Louis?  What are you up to these days? 

Louis Barnett: I captured a lot of what I learnt in the chocolate business, and I think I was very lucky very early on to have some really key mentors and advisors, that really drilled into me the importance of branding, marketing and business development as a cyclical approach to really frontline revenue and impact.  So, there was always a relationship between those three things, and I was always looking at the interrelationship in the chocolate business and especially overseas as well.  You have got even more complexity, because suddenly the branding and the consumer psychology becomes even more complicated. 

So, although I learned a lot about a lot of things about business, I think any good entrepreneur ends up juggling about a hundred different balls all at once.  But I think that there are certain things that you probably gravitate towards as an entrepreneur, and mine within my own business was always those three.  It was always our frontline revenue leaders.

So, I sort of encapsulated that, and as I said, 2008 got a first few proper consultancy projects and started to implement some of that as well as I was doing a lot of food and beverage work as well, restaurants, hotels, hospitality.  Then as the years went on, I came up with my own strategies, theories and implementation.  I’ve branded it now as the chocolate box methodology, this idea of a really heavily driven consumer psychology approach.

That’s what I do now, is I effectively have distilled all of that stuff that I learnt, literally from kitchen table to 17 countries and all of the bits in between, and distil it down into this chocolate box methodology which I work with companies to implement.  It started out, I did projects with very, very large corporate organisations, I’ve worked with some of the world’s biggest, world governments, all sorts of things; but I think I really realised that my passion was very much in the SME space, because they were still agile enough to make changes but also from a consumer psychology, the root of why people buy what they buy is human interaction.  A lot of brands start to lose that human buying from human thought processes, but also from a consumer who runs a lot of these companies, we don’t even know, there’s this sort of faceless thing that’s going on.

Actually, I found that it’s much easier to accelerate growth with SMEs as well from a buying psychology point of view, so that’s what I do.  Predominantly, it’s implementing the frontline revenue, but there is also a lot of stuff backend of getting things in order and organisational capabilities.  I am a super software nerd as well, SaaS products and things.  A bit of everything, but really I help companies grow impact and revenue, that’s kind of what I do now.

Wendy Harris: That’s got to be so cool to bring all the tools that you’ve learned to be able to grow a company, while still giving it that — because you are a family run business, aren’t you?  Let’s face it.

Louis Barnett: Yes.

Wendy Harris: You’ve always gone, “Well, you’ll need to speak to my mum about that one”.

Louis Barnett: Yes.

Wendy Harris: Which I think is so ace.  In terms of your aspirations and I’ve got to ask this because you’re still only a young man and I am old enough to be your mum, I need to know what is next, what is the goal for Louis?

Louis Barnett: The long-term goal is actually a large piece of land with a cob house on it and a homestead.  That’s really my thing, but ultimately, I think I’ve spent a long time helping others grow their businesses.  I will always continue to do that at some level.  I think I’m being a lot more selective now with who I work with and finding people with the right mindset that are willing to change the ways that they do things, but also willing to grow and change and become innovative.

Also, I don’t work with any companies that money is their sole object and desire.  For me it is all about larger impact, having a real why and a mission in the world.  So, I think I will always carry on doing that but there are a couple of ideas — it is more than ideas, yes.

Wendy Harris: Percolating something.

Louis Barnett: There are some concepts on the near horizon in the next six months that I’m looking to launch, so I do miss being involved in something day in, day out and really driving something forwards.  So, I think that’s really what’s next, is going back into doing something, getting behind the driver’s seat; and then on the side, still keeping this consultancy, although I really hate that word, but working with other companies.

Wendy Harris: I remember your ethics at Chokolit was, fair trade was one of those big things for you.  It was about the people that grow it, so those are all things that other people realised we should be making more effort in.  I do see that farmstead, grow your own but grow the surplus for everybody else and, “Come and get it from Louis”.  I totally buy into that idea.  I’d love to do that myself.  I’m not very good at growing things though.  I can grow stuff, but not the right stuff.

Louis Barnett: Yeah.

Wendy Harris: I think going back to values and things like that, I know where you are coming from.  It will be that organic, chemical-free.  It’s not even about brand that, is it?  That’s just about being a good human.

Louis Barnett: Yes, I guess so.  In a way, there are two categories of people that are involved in sustainability: those that really care or those that want to be seen to care.  Actually, in a sense, I don’t really mind which one it is, because I think as long as people are doing something.

Wendy Harris: Better than nothing.

Louis Barnett: Yeah, exactly.  I just think that for me, I grew up in a little village, not from an incredibly privileged background.  When I was really young, food was difficult to put on the table and there were a lot of things that I think informed my decisions that really for me and in my personal life as well, I don’t go against my values.  I am absolutely black and white when it comes to values, so for me I think that just fulfils such a big thing for me.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m always probably going to need to be close to a city, but to be able to come home after being in meetings and be in this little haven of British jungle, if you like, and to disappear into the garden at the end of the day, that is kind of exactly what I want.

Wendy Harris: I think everybody does.  I have this longstanding conversation with a good friend of mine, I’m going to shout her out, Jenny Procter.  Jenny, she’s the self-proclaimed introvert and she says, “Wendy you are the extroverted extrovert that I know”, yet we get on like an absolute house on fire, and I say to her, “I have so many introverted traits it’s just that you don’t see them, because when you see me, I’m in performance mode”. 

I don’t answer the phone at home, I make everybody else do it.  I don’t want to answer the door to anybody, I make everybody else do it.  We all need that space to decompress after something that — because it takes energy at the end of the day.

Louis Barnett: Yeah.

Wendy Harris: I think it is just about protecting our energy, just the same as in a conversation has flow.

Louis Barnett: Absolutely.  I think as you say, there is so much research as well with nature bathing, forest bathing, it really does change our biochemical processes.  As you say, you need that space to decompress and to switch off and also, come up with new ideas, because let’s face it, I can only talk for myself, but I’ve never come up with my best idea staring at a laptop for hours and hours and hours on end.  It’s usually when I’m out for a walk or in the garden or I’m switching off and decompressing, suddenly you ponder about something and go, “Oh wow, I’ve just come up with another good idea”.  You definitely need that balance, recharge the batteries time.

Wendy Harris: Allowing that time in nature to allow your mind to wander, because that’s when it will go, “Oh, I’ve just joined the dots up on something”.

Louis Barnett: Yeah.

Wendy Harris: I was having a conversation earlier this morning, with the podcast producer in actual fact and he said, “You know your idea?”  I went, “Oh yeah”, and he went, “I’ve had this idea”, and I went, “Okay”, and I went like this, “Ah”, and I had a better idea, and he went, “You’ve got that look again”.  Ideas can come from anywhere so long as you’re open to them.

Louis Barnett: Yes, absolutely.

Wendy Harris: Sometimes it’s that conversation that really helps.  We’ve got to the bit of the show I really, really, really get excited about, because I never know what’s coming next.  So, I ask everybody to think about a conversation that created a turning point and what happened next, so the mic is yours.

Louis Barnett: Yeah, sure.  So, this was a really difficult one for me, because I think there have been lots of conversations that have really made an impact.  I think I want to share two if that’s okay, I’ll sort of quick-fire them.  The first one was a conversation that I had with a guy who had worked in some of the top agencies in London and all the big names, worked in New York in various agencies as well, come back to the UK and decided to start up a marketing and branding agency, only working with sustainable impactful companies. 

It used to be called HOST Universal, unfortunately it’s no more, Robin sort of semi-retired and doing lots of other very cool and interesting things, but he really talked to me about what brand was.  In a way it is such a simplistic way of explaining it, but it has taken me probably the last 13, 14 years to keep unpacking it and figuring out the depth of the meaning.  He drew on a whiteboard two circles and in one of the circles it said, “Us” and in the other circle it said, “Them”.

The idea is that obviously most companies end up spending their entire time marketing from us, the business to them, the customer base, and they use all kinds of different tactics and sales manipulations and discounts and features and USPs and all of that sort of thing.  They are constantly pushing out to the audience, but when they stop, generally sales dry up or they slow down.  Then he drew another circle and put “We” in it and connected up all the dots and said that this is what brands do.  They invite “them” into a space where they feel a “we”.  They feel that they’re actually part of something and he used the analogy that it’s like inviting somebody to go on a trek with you. 

You say to them, “I want you to come on this lifechanging adventure with me”.  “Where are we going?”  “I don’t really know, somewhere, we’ll figure it out”.  Why are we going?”  “I don’t know, just sort of fancy it”, versus “I want you to come and climb Snowden with me backwards on our hands because we’re raising money for this organisation”.  It’s a very different conversation and so I think that that was the first thing.  As I said I am still unpacking it now and really trying to leverage consumer psychology to understand how to do it in deeper and deeper ways, but it was such a simplistic idea that changed my perspective on really what brand and what it was all about. 

What is brand?  Brand really to me is personality.  It’s a very human thing and so we’re inviting people to come into our space.  Not everyone’s going to like it, just like not everyone’s going to like us.  Good brands are divisive, they push people away and attract others, but actually it’s always coming back to this “we” idea.  How are we creating this “we”?  How are we involving them in everything that we actually do?

As I said, that completely changed the whole direction of the company, it changed the way that we saw our customers, it changed the way that we marketed, it changed everything for us.  One of the key things that we ended up doing was building really long-lasting sales relationships.  When we closed down a lot of the business, a lot of our customers had been with us ten-plus years, and they were incredibly sad to see us move out the industry.  But that was this perspective that I got from this guy.

Wendy Harris: So they were part of your journey, so it was over for them as well.

Louis Barnett: Correct,  yeah, absolutely.  The second conversation, a very different one but again, I think it just talks about not judging books by their covers but also giving people the time.  You never know what and who are you are talking to and what you’re going to learn from them.  It was at a networking event in London.  The girl that was organising it, I think this was 2007, 2008, the girl that was organising it was veggie/vegan, had organised for all this kind of sloppy, sort of Mediterranean veggie vegan food, but we’d got these really flimsy paper plates.  I stacked my plate up, turned around and flung stuff all down this guy’s suit.  I was absolutely mortified!  I obviously offered to have it cleaned and we started to have this conversation. 

At the time, I’d never been a massive fan of people in the banking industry from my own experience and others.  The guy gave me his business card and it said, “Mansour from ING Bank”.  I was thinking, “God?  I’ve got to talk to this guy”, and then something in me and it’s something that various mentors have said to me is that, “Wise men know they’re idiots”.  Wise men know they know nothing, and actually you need to see every opportunity that you talk to somebody as a learning opportunity.  It popped into my head, and I thought, “Hey I don’t know what this guy’s got that he can share that might be great for my journey”.

We talked for about 40 minutes, he then said, “Can I have my business card back?”  I said, “Well, if I’ve really offended you that badly”, he said, “No, I want to give you my real one”.  It said, “President of ING Bank”.  Interestingly, he invited me to an event a couple of weeks later to cater, we did all the chocolates for this private banking event, and on the same night I met three people which would really change the course of the entire business, including a guy called Jamil, who the next day, had a phone call from somebody he went to uni with, who had gone back to Mexico and was asking him to recommend a British chocolatier for a huge chocolate show which then spanned the whole Mexico journey for me.

They ended up being our biggest export customer and over the years, I’ve probably spent four years in Mexico in various different times.  Yeah, I think again, just one of those conversations that had I not just checked myself again, and gone, “Don’t ever have a judgement about somebody or a situation, because you never know where it is going to lead”.  Had I just made my exit at that point, the business certainly would not have gone in many of the directions that it did.

Wendy Harris: Absolutely, oh my goodness, you have just almost used one of my key phrases that I use in my branding which is, “You never know where a conversation is going to lead”.

Louis Barnett: Yeah.

Wendy Harris: One of the other things that I always say to people, “It’s not what you know, it’s not who you know, it’s what you know about them”.  If you actually take the time to get to know these people, you will be able to help them in ways that you’ll never even be able to imagine by just making assumptions.

Louis Barnett: Yeah.

Wendy Harris: Goodness me.  Then, aside from learning a little bit of Spanish, which makes me think of a previous guest who actually teaches globally how to speak languages, so good old Ray popped into my head, but serendipity and another conversation I’ve had with a guest, Sarah Townsend, where she just met somebody at the bus stop.  You are absolutely right, you just never ever know where that next opportunity is coming from, so I always say, “Will you recognise it if it knocks on your door?”

Louis Barnett: Yes, absolutely and as you say, just give it the time because you don’t know.  I could probably say I’ve learned actually more from ordinary conversations than I have from some top 100 CEOs that I’ve met.  I think you never really know, as you say, where that conversation is going to lead and who knows who.  There are some incredible statistics that you’re only 15 people away from anyone in the world.  Things like that, you never really know as you say. 

I’ve been very lucky that I’ve never, ever sought out a single one of my clients.  I’ve never actually done any direct, let’s call it marketing in a sense, because my clients have always found me, and it’s been through my network.  I think there’s an incredible importance in human-to-human connections and I think especially in the digital age, we do need to remember that as well, because it can be very easy to get just so wrapped up in the digital space without actually considering that we do need to remember to build relationships with people, because as you say, that is really when the best things in life happen and the best genuine connections happen.

Wendy Harris: I couldn’t agree more, Louis, and it’s just testament really that you show up as you, and that’s who people want to work with.  I have to say it’s the same for me.  I don’t go round cold calling people saying, “Do you need some help?”  I don’t do that, I wouldn’t have the time, but you just show up as the best person and the best version that you can be, and so long as you’re helpful and offer value, I think that is the key ingredient.

Louis Barnett: Yeah, 100% absolutely.

Wendy Harris: Louis, two great conversations there, lots and lots of value in that, thank you so much for sharing with us.

Louis Barnett: No worries.

Wendy Harris: If people want to carry on the conversation, they can’t wait to get to the website, and we might not have updated it quickly enough for them, where is the best place for them to come and find you?

Louis Barnett: The best place is my website, www.louisbarnett.org.  I do update it usually every couple of weeks, I’m pretty good at putting things on, but pretty much any other social media you can think of, I am there.  I’m not a massive social media user myself, I use it for a lot of clients, so I think I get a bit of fatigue sometimes but @louisbarnett on almost everything.  Drop me a message and I will respond.

Wendy Harris: That’s brilliant, thank you so much for joining us today, Louis.  I’ll speak to you, soon.

Louis Barnett: Yes, brilliant thank you.

Wendy Harris: There you have it, 15 years on, and Louis has been working with some of the finest British retailers across 17 countries.  If you’d have asked that young man 15 years ago if that was what he saw for his future, he’d have probably chuckled.  It just goes to show, there is no such thing as overnight success and it doesn’t matter how long it takes for you to get to where you want to be, it’s a really great adventure, finding your way there.

And talking of adventures, next week’s guest has been across the globe with what he does.  We’re going to be talking to Tom Libelt.

 

 

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paula senior YMCA

Episode 1 – Paula Senior

In our first episode, we speak to Paula Senior from the YMCA. Paula is a fund-raising officer and is currently preparing for the annual Sleepout to raise much needed funds for the night shelter, how covid has stretched them to the limits and how they have risen above the challenges faced by the homeless.

Nat schooler

Episode 2 – Nat Schooler

Can one conversation really influence where you are driven? Nat Schooler

Influence marketeer Nat Schooler joins Wendy as they chat about how important it is to produce strategic content online. Nat spends his time podcasting, writing, and driving across foreign continents for fun. However, their conversation quickly turns to the importance of building relationships with the people you want to work with. Nat places trust as the highest asset everyone should nurture.

Azam Mamujee M Cubed Tax specialist

Episode 3 – Azam Mamujee

In this episode, Wendy is joined by Managing Partner, Azam Mamujee a tax specialist with a voice of velvet.

Azam agrees that conversations count however he explains how numbers can tell a much more powerful story. He has a catchphrase “Give Azam the facts, I’ll save you the Tax”.

Jenny Procter Marketing for introverts bondfield

Episode 4 – Jenny Procter

Jenny Procter – Bondfield Marketing

Making Conversations about Marketing for Introverts Count

Let us introduce you to Jenny Procter, a marketing consultant and self-proclaimed introvert.

Jenny writes PR and communications for B2B clients and has her own podcast show, and she discusses issues around running her own business as an entrepreneur.

Andrew Deighton team coaching

Episode 5 – Andrew Deighton

Andrew Deighton – Team Coaching. Making Conversations about Teams Count. We are joined by Andrew Deighton today, who helps build and develop high-performing teams through strategy and processes in today’s remote working world.

Wendy has worked with Andrew in a second business through mentoring and knows firsthand how his advice relates to many aspects of running a business.

Nicky Pattinson sales expert public speaker

Episode 6 – Nicky Pattinson

Nicky Pattinson – Leading Sales Authority & Public Speaker. Making Conversations about Personality Count. Nicky Pattinson speaks the Truth in all she does! A northern lass who traded on the markets at the beginning of her career, similarly to your host. Now, Nicky has a best-selling book “Email: Don’t Get Deleted” and her own YouTube channel NICKYPTV.

Buckso Dhillon Wooley

Episode 7 – Buckso Dhillon-Wooley

Buckso Dhillon-Wooley – Actress, Speaker & Business Coach. Making Conversations about Self-Belief Count. A true diamond, Buckso is very much aligned with herself and the many facets of her own personality.
As an actor, speaker and coach her mission in life is to help people connect with their higher self.
Being aligned with yourself on a spiritual, physical and emotional level allows you to shine brighter in everything you touch.
Buckso Dillon-Whooley is a well known Actress, who has starred in Disney’s recent remake of Aladdin and is a long-standing actor on Coronation Street with appearances on many UK TV shows.

James Daniel Copywriter

Episode 8 – James Daniel

James Daniel – Copywriter
Making Conversations about Copywriting Count
Joining us in this episode is copywriter James Daniel.
He describes himself as ‘That old guy who writes copy – you know, the beardy one with glasses.’
We should point out there could be other old guys with beards and glasses out there!
It’s easy to like James’ style of writing because he’s a conversationalist who realizes that people don’t speak geek or tech.

Henny Maltby Digital marketing agency

Episode 9 – Henny Maltby

Henny Maltby – Digital Marketing Agency, Pink Elephant Media. Making Conversations about Digital Marketing Count. When the Pandemic hit in early 2020, Henny Maltby turned to her husband as they both realised their business was going to change forever. Offering online marketing to large corporate businesses who cut budgets left a hole to fill. By opening the conversation up with local businesses, it was obvious what the next chapter would be for them at Pink Elephant Media…

Kim Walsh Phillips

Episode 10 – Kim Walsh Phillips

Kim Walsh Phillips owns Powerful Professionals, a business that helps empower entrepreneurs to turn clicks into cash and identifying the superpowers in others so they can fly high. Kim is an expert in social selling strategy.

Amelia Thorpe Wellbeing coach

Episode 11 – Amelia Thorpe

Amelia Thorpe – Mental Health Wellbeing Coach. Making Conversations about Mental Wealth Count. Meet Amelia Thorpe, founder of Wellbeing 360, who talks to Wendy about how important it is to give equal priority to our mental and physical health. Listening to Amelia’s story will bring a beacon of hope that we can all take charge of our own conversations which will give us back the control that slips sometimes when times are tough. Amelia is a wellbeing counsellor.

John Attridge capacity business

Episode 12 – John Attridge

John Attridge – Guiding Businesses to Reach their Full Potential by Tapping into Spare Capacity

Making Conversations about Capacity Count. John Attridge, owner of BBX turns spare capacity into value for many businesses. When you listen to John you just know there is a bigger story to this guy as his accent gives it away!
John has successfully built a business network and community to help people fill spare capacity and exchange services. It is a brilliant concept and if you’ve not come across it before yet in touch with me and I’ll tell you more. Using the BBX community helped my own business through the lockdown and has provided such a lot of support and new relationships.

Clara Wilcox return to work coaching for parents

Episode 13 – Clara Wilcox

Clara Wilcox runs The Balance Collective, Specialising in Return to Work Coaching for Parents. Making Conversations about Returning to Work Count! This is a conversation that every Mum will resonate with, juggling home and work is not simply a balancing act but a superpower!

Clara recognized through her own personal journey that the right support for Mum’s returning to work was only available from the employer’s point of view. This causes a biased approach and is not always helpful in an emotive decision-making process.

dr ivan misner bni networking

Episode 14 – Dr Ivan Misner

In this episode, Ivan and Wendy explore how conversation is the foundation of all growth and learning. How times have changed, looking back and also predicting our future generations experiences, yet communication will still be the underpin even it how that looks has changed.

Janine Coombes marketing coach

Episode 15 – Janine Coombes

Google has recognised this lady as the #1 marketing coach and her video series mixes humour with key messages, it is the lovely Janine Coombes. Janine is a marketing coach for personal brands.
In this episode, Janine and Wendy share how using the right language influences the conversations we have and how it affects our results.

Lizzie Butler presentations coach

Episode 16 – Lizzie Butler

Making conversations about presentations count! Delighted to introduce Lizzie Butler, owner of LB Communications, who met Wendy at a local online networking event and immediately hit it off. Lizzie helps you to grow your business through personal development training and how to achieve brilliant communication.

Jem hills inspirational speaker

Episode 17 – Jem Hills

Making conversations about Bullying count. Jem Hills is an inspirational speaker, trainer & performance coach.
Talking to Wendy in this episode is ex-marine Jem Hills who you might find it hard to believe was affected by bullying and a lack of confidence. As a release Jem discovered Northern dancing and practiced as a bedroom activity that later led to an accidental release of freestyle dancing at a competition. The dancing-built resilience and the foundations for the training to complete the Mud Run and onto his Elite Special Forces career.

Peter howard graphic design

Episode 18 – Peter Howard

Peter Howard runs a design studio that is ranked in the top 100 in the country and was responsible for the WAG brand. Having known Peter and his team for many years, Wendy has heard lots of his stories but knew there would be one she had not heard before.

Taz Thornton & Asha Clearwater business coaches

Episode 19 – Taz Thornton & Asha Clearwater

Making conversations about partnerships count. In a Making Conversations Count first, we are joined by two dynamic guests in this episode. Both Taz & Asha provide business coach services in different areas. Joining Wendy chatting about all the elements that make up a great debate. You are not going to want to miss the observations with Taz Thornton and Asha Clearwater around questioning, opinions, debate and discernment that makes for wonderful colourful conversations.

Vicki Carroll O'Neill

Episode 20 – Vicki Carroll (formerly O’Neill)

Vicki works with entrepreneurs, small business owners and executive leaders who are stuck in their business and need someone as a partner to coach them to their next level of success. Vicki offers growth marketing consultant advice, strategy plans & also organises in-house marketing teams.

heidi medina business coach

Episode 21 – Heidi Medina

This episode contains one of our most important conversations, so we’re definitely going to make it count!
Wendy Harris brings Heidi Medina into the conversation today, who opens up the conversation about abuse she has encountered.
She’s a Linkedin expert and business coach who is the exact opposite of the classic ‘my way or the highway’.
Whether you meet Heidi online or in person she is the same.

Niraj Kapur online sales coach

Episode 22 – Niraj Kapur

In this episode, Wendy is joined by Online Sales Coach Niraj Kapur from “Everybody works in Sales” a business that helps companies with their sales processes.

Steve Judge paralympian motivational speaking

Episode 23 – Steve Judge

A life-changing accident that almost claimed a life but actually birthed a mindset shift.  Making conversations about speaking count!

Imagine losing your limbs in an accident.

That’s a real human test.

Most people would fall into one of two camps.

Feel the loss, and struggle to overcome it, before essentially accepting your ‘job lot’ and just becoming a bit angry.

Many would. And they’d be forgiven.

Then there are others, who would not let it defeat them, or define them.

Steve Judge is definitely in the latter of the two camps.

Nikolas Venios the ideas agency

Episode 24 – Nik Venios

We reflect on how this business man helped his poorly mother solve a household challenge which led to a career of making conversations about ideas and innovation count. We will all eventually lose our parents. Sadly, it’s a part of life. Not many of us have to suffer that loss at the tender age of just six. We couldn’t think of a nicer guy to help us with our goal of making conversations about ideas count. Truly, if anyone can hold a conversation about ideas, it’s Nik Venios of the Ideas Agency. Did you know that NASA has a genius test? During this episode, you’ll find out all about this, and the fascinating stats surrounding it.

Jonny cooper hates marketing

Episode 25 – Jonny Cooper

Most business owners hate marketing. That’s probably because they don’t understand it. Someone who does get marketing is Jonny Cooper, and even he can’t stand it! In fact, he despises it so much, he built a business around it. Welcome to Jonny Hates Marketing! This week we’re making conversations about messaging count. Messaging is so important to get correct. Your entire marketing voice depends on it. That’s why you need to listen very carefully to Jonny Cooper.

Wendy Harris telephone trainer how to sell over the phone

Episode 26 – Wendy Harris

Wendy Harris is an expert telemarketer, who has years worth of experience in cold-calling and doing it right. Now a podcast host, Wendy shares her story and how she became an advocate for making conversations count!

Will Polston Make it happen

Episode 27 – Will Polston

Making conversations about wealth….and Clubhouse….count! Paying it forward. Acting from a position of generosity and giving within the law of reciprocity. We’re talking to Will Polston.

Ray Blakney Live Lingua

Episode 28 – Ray Blakney

Making conversations about language count… Ray Blakney is the CEO And founder of online language school Live Lingua. Can you speak another language other than your native tongue? Wendy admitted to the “Making Conversations Count” team that she doesn’t, and we can’t help but feel she’s definitely not alone.

Many Ward write my book cuddle monster

Episode 29 – Mandy Ward

Mandy Ward is a book mentor, helping people to write their own books under the company ‘Write my book’. Mandy is also an author herself, including the popular children’s book ‘The Cuddle Monster’.

Sarah Townsend copywriter survival skills for freelancers

Episode 30 – Sarah Townsend

Sarah Townsend is a freelance copywriter and best-selling author of the book ‘survival skills for freelancers’. In this episode, we discuss the importance of conversations in the freelance world, and how things can lead to many opportunities…

Paul Furlong visual branding advertiser videographer

Episode 31 – Paul Furlong

Paul Furlong is part of Opus Media, producing TV advertising, videos, and photographs for businesses. He knows a thing or two about visual branding, and is considered a advertising guru!

Masami Sato founder B1G1

Episode 32 – Masami Sato

Masami Sato set up the B1G1 initiative. Helping businesses to do good by giving back. When was the last time you gave, freely Not for tax reasons. And not because you felt awkward at a raffle. We could all always do more.

Ann Hobbs Forward thinking publishing

Episode 33 – Ann Hobbs

Ann Hobbs helps people to self-publish their books with Forward Thinking Publishing. She is also a coach and author of her book ‘Kick ass your life’, helping people to push through adversity.

Kim-Adele Platts Career development coach

Episode 34 – Kim-Adele Platts

Kim-Adele Platts, Career Development Coach. Making Conversations about Leadership Count! If you don’t believe in yourself how do you expect others to? This was a question and topic that surfaced during this powerful and insightful conversation with Kim-Adele Platts.

Marina Hauer branding specialist for coaches

Episode 35 – Marina Hauer

Marina Hauer is a branding specialist for independent coaches. Are you using three different brand ‘voices’ in your marketing efforts? We’re making conversations about branding count!

David Smith MBE paralympian

Episode 36 – David Smith

David Smith MBE is a Paralympian in the sport Boccia. Do you know what Boccia is? David tells you in this episode all about the most inclusive Paralympian sport that helps people with their independence.

Graham Nash accountant

Episode 37 – Graham Nash

Graham Nash, BusinessWise Accountants, has worked in many fields over the years and the one common denominator has been helping business turnaround.

Ian Genius sales coach

Episode 38 – Ian Genius

Ian Genius is the sales coach to help you gain confidence in sales. His Ingenious technique helps clients see the value of your best package to COMMAND a higher price.

Jennie Erikson voice over artist

Episode 39 – Jennie Eriksen

Jennie Eriksen is a voice over artist, her company name is Lovely Voice. She helps her intended listener to learn by being able to bring characters to life.

Stella Da Silva employability trainer

Episode 40 – Stella Da Silva

Stella Da Silva talks about vocations in this episode, as a specialist employability trainer she shares her insider knowledge.
What skills do you need to be employable?

Hypnotist Jonathan Chase

Episode 41 – Jonathan Chase

Look into my eyes! You will feel very sleepy! You guessed it, we’re having one of our many conversations that count with hypnosis star Jonathan Chase.

Brynne Tillman social sales link

Episode 42 – Brynne Tillman

Brynne Tillman is a social selling expert. Her company ‘Social Sales Link’ teaches the importance of connection for selling on LinkedIn and other platforms.

Ruth Driscoll

Episode 43 – Ruth Driscoll

Ruth Driscoll supports people through toxic relationships. Her company the ‘life liberator’ takes her personal experiences to help others.

Rob Begg mindset coach

Episode 44 – Rob Begg

Rob Begg is a results based mindset coach to business leaders & teams. In this episode, he talks about your ego and self-limiting beliefs many of us hold.

Dan Knowlton video advertising

Episode 45 – Dan Knowlton

Dan Knowlton and his brother Lloyd run Knowlton – a social media and video advertising company who create unique, funny content to stop the scroll.

Sudhir Kumar

Episode 46 – Sudhir Kumar

Sudhir Kumar is an expert in social selling to grow your business, he’s written a book ‘Being Human: Marketing & Social Selling in a Digital World’.

Episode 47 – Ann Page

Ann Page is a lawyer who helps other lawyers with her courses. She teaches valuable business skills and teaches the importance of avoiding jargon.

Joe Chatham networking

Episode 48 – Joe Chatham

Joe Chatham set up USA 500. It’s an exclusive member-based organization focusing on sharing his expertise in marketing relationships and networking.

Larry Long Jnr

Episode 49 – Larry Long Jnr

Larry Long Jnr is a sales coach that helps give people, teams, and organizations the motivation to go from good to great.

pete cann laughter man

Episode 50 – Pete Cann

Larry Long Jnr is a sales coach that helps give people, teams, and organizations the motivation to go from good to great.

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